Reading A Testament of Devotion by Thomas Kelly, I was particularly struck by the following quote from his section on holy obedience.
“Don’t grit your teeth and clinch your fists and say, ‘I will! I will!’ Relax. Take hands off. Submit yourself to God. Learn to live in the passive voice – a hard saying for Americans – and let life be willed through you. For ‘I will’ spells not obedience.”