If you find yourself feeling useless, remember: it took 20 years, trillions of dollars, thousands of lives and four presidents to replace the Taliban with the Taliban.
Chivalry
I have long wondered, whether the solution to toxic masculinity is not unmasculine men, but finding a type of masculinity that is chivalrous rather than chauvanistic, virulent yet virtuous, protective without being patriarchal.
But what would that look like?
Michael Bird
Nominalism
Nominalism rejects “inner meanings,” certainly as anything more than ideas in our heads. Things are simply things, and words nothing more than the names we call them. Straightforward moral examples and historical events, interpreted largely in their own historical context, became the preferred way of seeing the Scriptures. Prophetic statements began to be seen as flatly predictive rather than possessed of irony, allegory and paradox. Historical-critical studies that dismantled various historical claims of other Christians, would be unthinkable without the assumptions of Nominalism.
Fr Stephen Freeman
Hurting people
In the middle of the speed and the noise of this life; in the dizzying parade that we defiantly strut through every day trying to fool people into believing that we’re all okay, it can be a challenge to remember that we’re all not okay. I hope that you will, though, because it will change the way you walk the rest of the journey.
Today, find your place in this great congregation of flawed, wounded souls and feel right at home here.
John Pavlovitz
Words for a young pastor
Legendary theologian Karl Barth was asked by a student what words he would give to a young pastor:
“And I would ask you, are you trained to visit not only yourself now, but a congregation with what you have learned out of the Bible and of church history and dogmatics and so on? Having to say something, having to say that thing.
And then the other question: are you willing now to deal with humanity as it is? Humanity in this twentieth century with all its passions, sufferings, errors, and so on? Do you like them, these people? Not only the good Christians, but do you like people as they are? People in their weaknesses? Do you like them, do you love them? And are you willing to tell them the message that God is not against them, but for them? That’s the one real thing in pastoral service and that is the question for you. If you go into ministry to do that work, pray earnestly. You’ll do difficult work but beautiful work.”
the living sacrament of marriage:
“Marriage is a journey of love. It is the creation of a new human being, a new person, for as the Gospel says, ‘the two will be as one flesh’. God unites two people, and makes them one. From this union of two people, who agree to synchronize their footsteps and harmonize the beating of their hearts, a new human being emerges. Through such profound and spontaneous love, the one becomes a presence, a living reality, in the heart of the other. ‘I am married’ means that I cannot live a single day, even a few moments, without the companion of my life. My husband, my wife, is part of my being, of my flesh, of my soul. He or she complements me. He or she is the thought of my mind. He or she is the reason for which my heart beats… in marriage, it seems that two people become together. However, it’s not two but three. The man marries the woman, and the woman marries the man, but the two together also marry Christ. So three take part in the mystery, and three remain together in life.”
Elder Aimilianos
Evangelism
The struggle for many of us is that we were schooled in an understanding of evangelism that equated faith sharing with preaching. Such an understanding assumes faith sharing is always one-way traffic — from the sharer to the seeker. But the New Testament uses a number of terms to describe evangelistic ministry. They include to persuade (peithos), describe (diegoeomai), reason with (dialegomia), confound (syncheo), prove (symbibazo), argue (syzeteo), talk (laleo), beseech (deomai), and encourage (parakaleo).
Faith sharing in the early church involved more conversations than lectures.
Michael Frost
Listening
The English word “listen” comes from two Anglo-Saxon words. One means “hearing” and the other means “to wait in suspense.” Conversations might manifest greater love & attentiveness if we adopted an attitude of waiting in suspense to learn something from the other person’s words.
Brad Brisco
Intelligence/ Wisdom
Intelligence is the ability to understand many ideas. Wisdom is the ability to identify the few ideas worth understanding.
Wisdom without intelligence can still lead to a good, simple life. Intelligence without wisdom is a special (and dangerous) form of stupidity.
Mark Manson
Eliminating Religion
If there is no God, no purpose in life, if the universe is utterly indifferent to our birth, life, and death, then what’s the point of it all? What does that mean for our instinctive hunger for justice? Is love just a bunch of chemicals squishing around in our brains? What is beauty and friendship beyond banal constructs of feeble minds attempting to rationalize a purpose for a purposeless existence? That is what atheism requires, but nobody can really live that way. We would be left to immerse ourselves in complete hedonism, drugs, sex, and pleasure to dull the numbing pain of an existence that is cruel because it is nakedly pointless.
And that’s the thing, even if you eliminate religion, you end up religionizing whatever you replace it with. If there is no God, Jesus, Allah, or Buddha, then people will make gods out of the things that give them pleasure and power. As I’ve argued, A Religionless Society Will Still Have Gods, because: “What replaces religion then is either the quest for power or the lust for pleasure, the clenched fist or a phallus, an M-16 or sex toys, Putin or Lady Gaga.”
Michael Bird
Old and infirmed
Sometimes the old and the infirm, those who have been wounded by life and whose choices have been constrained, reveal what is most important in life. Sometimes those whose choices have been limited can demonstrate that, by focusing on others and not on oneself, life is defined not by the options available to us but by the strength of our commitments.
David Brooks
Distrust of Church
In 2009, 52% of U.S. adults said they had a great deal or quite a lot of confidence in the church as an institution. That was the last year most Americans held that belief. In 2018, confidence levels fell below 40% for the first time. They edged above that mark in 2020, only to drop back below in 2021 and even further in 2022. Despite the 1-point increase in 2023, the current 32% of Americans who have a great deal or fair amount of confidence in the church marks the second-lowest percentage ever.
Some Americans are less likely than others to have trust in the church. Younger adults are more distrustful than those who are older. Americans 18-34 (24%) have lower levels of confidence than those 35-54 (32%) and 55 and older (35%).
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