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From Crazy Love by Francis Chan:

Oswald Chambers wrote, “Never make a principle out of your experience;   let God be as original with other people as He is with you.” To  that I would add, “Be careful not to turn others’ lives into the mold for  your own.” Allow God to be as creative with you as He is with each of us.

Not being able to fully understand God is frustrating, but it is ridiculous for us to think we have the right to limit God to something we are capable of comprehending.

Nothing compares to being truly, exuberantly wanted by your  children.

When we love God because we feel we should love Him, instead of genuinely loving out of our true selves, we have forgotten who God really is.

God Wants Us

More from McManus’s Soul Cravings

If those who are the religious elite are closest to God, why is it that they are so rarely closest to love?

If God is love, those who know God best would love people most. Jesus said he came not to condemn the world, but to bring the world life. Why is it that so many who represent him are ever so quick to condemn? All her accusers could see was a woman guilty of adultery. There’s always so much more behind these stories -a woman abused by her husband searching for love; a little girl abused by a relative, who would forever confuse love with sex; a prostitute who would sell love for a price but had none to give.

If Jesus’ encounter with this unnamed adulterous woman tells us anything, it reveals the unexpected truth that the safest place for a sinful person to go is to God. He and he alone is the only One who will neither condemn us nor leave us in our brokenness. On the mount of Olives she found herself most alone and discovered the unimaginable – God wanted her. God was her place to belong, and this reality became the beginning of new things. That may be the most powerful thing about love. Love gives us a fresh start . Love gives us a reason to live.

When life isn’t what it should be, love gives us the strength to endure whatever may come.

The Love of God

The following is an excerpt from Soul Cravings by Erwin McManus which I am currently re-reading.

I had been invited to speak to a group of Muslims, specifically about the history of Christianity. Pressed by my translator to answer a question that I had somewhat evaded, I was left with nowhere to go but to talk more specifically and personally about Jesus. I had been describing to them my own sense of disappoint ment with and even disdain of the religion of Christianity. They all quickly agreed that as a religion, there were deep problems and inconsistencies between beliefs and practices.

But eventually they wanted to know what exactly was the meaning behind the coming ofjesus, Somewhat apprehensively I began my best effort to translate back into a Middle Eastern context the story of Jesus (after all, this was Jesus’ home turf) and, more specifically, why it would be necessary for God to become human. This, from my vantage point, was the story of God. It’s a love story, by the way.

“I once met a girl named Kim.”

My translator looked at me confused. I’m sure he was wracking his brain, trying to remember some biblical character named Kim. He stopped translating and just looked at me. I encouraged him to simply translate .

“I once met a girl named Kim. and fell in love.”

I continued, “I pursued her with my love and pursued her with my love until I felt my love had captured her heart. So I asked her to be my wife, and she said no. ” I could feel their empathy, if not their pity.

“I was unrelenting and asked her again, pursuing her with my love, and I pursued her with my love untill she said yes.”

There was huge relief throughout the entire room.

I went on, “I did not send my brother, nor did I send a friend, for in issues of love, you must go yourself.

“This is the story of God: he pursues you with his love and pursues you with his love, and you have perhaps not said yes. And if you reject his love, he pursues you ever still. It was not enough to send an angel or a prophet or any other, for in issues of love, you must go yourself. And so God has come.

“This is the story of Jesus, that God has walked among us and he pursues us with his Love. He is very familiar with rejection but is undeterred. And he is here even now, still pursuing you with his love.”

The images we often receive of Muslims are that they’re angry, hostile, and violent people. I can tell you that in this moment I knew there was something transcendent that connected all of our hearts and souls together. A belief that was supposed to divide us strangely united us, and I feel most certain that I know why. Every human being longs for love. The possibility that God is love is an almost overwhelming prospect.

In that moment the story of Jesus was not about who is right and who is wrong, what God’s name is and who his prophet is, but what exactly God’s motivation toward humanity is. If the message that God wants to get across to us is just about getting our beliefs right, then he didn’t need to come himself. If God’s entire intent was to clarify right from wrong, no personal visitation was necessary. If the ultimate end was simply to overwhelm us with the miraculous so that we would finally believe, then even God taking on flesh and blood and walking among us was far from necessary.

There is only one reason for God to come himself, because in issues of love, you just can’t have someone else stand in for you.

February Update

The month of February is almost gone. After a very difficult winter, it seems that we are beginning to experience a warming trend. I have been able to get the leaves in the yard picked up and will do some seeding and fertilizing before long. I also have some yard wok to do at the guest house. Last week I power washed our picket fence and on Friday I began painting. It appears I will not be able to paint for the next 7-10 days, but it is a good start.

We have volunteered to be foster parents to a rabbit that belongs to our friends who recently moved from across the street to a new place where they cannot have pets. I had a hutch and Shuki is staying in the rear area of our carriage house. It is working out fine so far. Our friends will reclaim Shuki when they are able.

As noted earlier February is a big birthday month in our family. Scott and Allison’s twin boys, Neyland and Turner, celebrated their 1st birthday and we were able to be there with them. They are really precious kids and are getting really busy.

While we were at Scott’s, he and I walked down to the lake in his development and fished for some bass.  Not long after we got there Scott hooked a nice bass which turned out to be a 6# 9oz lunker, the biggest bass he has ever caught. I caught 5 fish but nothing even close to his.

The grandkids winter sports are winding down. The Crockett boys are playing basketball and are having very good seasons. Two more games and then baseball starts. The Gabehart boys are finished with wrestling. Ryan’s year was cut short because of a broken leg. Kyle had a good year and made it to regionals. Tyler had a great year. He made it to the state tournament and finished 2nd in  his age/weight group.

Grayson was recently selected to be on the jump rope team at his school. It was quite an honor because he is only one of three 3rd graders picked for the team. The team had their first presentation last week. Here is a short video of Grayson.

Grayson Jump Rope

It looks like it is going to be a busy spring. I have a lot of projects on my list and that does not always include what is on Ann’s list for me. That is a good thing.

A Morning Serendipity

As usual, I was reading through my blog reader this morning and was very pleased to find this quote in a post by Marilyn Elliott.

People with a will to love sometimes resist receiving love. They will not open their hands and lives to the love given by others. Maybe they do not believe themselves worthy of love, or maybe they like to be the strong one without needs who stoops to help others. To have a will to love without a will to BE loved is like living with half a heart. Those who desire to love this person can become deeply confused. What seems to be the will to love begins to look more like the will to be in control, or the will to be at the top. Receiving love is a humble human task. I have seen that to be human, every person must learn to willingly receive what they have not earned. (emphasis mine)

You can read the complete post here.