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Change

Why is it so hard to change? Even when the need is clear and compelling, change is most often avoided. In a recent lesson, Erwin McManus cited a study conducted on people who were told that in the absence of some change in their life style they were going to die prematurely. The study showed that only one person in seven made changes necessary to prolong their life. 15% ! I was startled by that statistic until I though about my encounters with the need to make changes in my own life style.

Why are we like that?

  • Perhaps we don’t believe what we have been told.
  • Maybe we understand the risk but think we are the exception.
  • We have decided our current life style is worth the risk.
  • We think the discomfort of change is to great.

Maybe you can think of other reasons why we don’t change. If the threat of death doesn’t work …  More importantly, I would like to understand what enables the one of seven to make changes.

For the most part, I think about change in the context of “before and after” i.e. TV’s “The Biggest Loser”

Perhaps a prequel to “The Biggest Loser” would be enlightening.

The Ultimate Helicopter Mom

I ran across this Craig’s List posting in the items wanted section.

penpal wanted for my son who is incarcerated . females who might be interested can email me for his contact info . he is a goodlooking 25 year old . 6ft 4in. slinder but muscular build . he just gets boared with only mom and i writing .

Catching Up

Despite suffering from “blog slog”, I am going to attempt to catch up a bit.

Ann and I are currently in Abilene visiting her parents. They are in the process of selling their house and moving to an assisted living facility. We are helping to prepare their house a bit and sort through a lot of stuff. The real estate market is not good in Abilene and it may be a while before they are able to sell their place. It is a difficult transition for them. I hope that I can learn from their experience in preparation for my own inevitable transitions. If I can just remember…………

Since my last post Scott celebrated a birthday- 10-10-10. Happy belated birthday. We visited he and Allison and the twins briefly on our way to Abilene. Neyland and Turner are cute as they can be. Their Mimi thinks they are really special. (Papa too but who cares?)

I would like to post more but the “slog” is catching up with me. Maybe later. I’ve been pondering some things I would like share but “slog” rehab is slow.