For the Joy of the Journey

I very much appreciate the prayer above. My prayer, not nearly as thoughtful, sadly, betrays my shallow expectations. A veiled request to love our neighbors well. “Lord, help us quit screaming at each other!”

The election over but it is not the end, it is the the beginning. What our nation will look like during the next four years, and beyond, will be largely determine by whether we can stop screaming at each other.
Rhetoric for unity, peace, cooperation, et al, will not, cannot, be heard until the screaming stops. An obvious question is “How do we stop screaming?”. To answer that question we need to understand why we are screaming at each other. It is my premise that Why we have been, and will continue to scream at each other is because almost everyone resides in an echo chamber ¹An echo chamber is a metaphorical description of a situation in which information, ideas, or beliefs are amplified or reinforced by communication and repetition inside a defined system. Inside a figurative echo chamber, official sources often go unquestioned and different or competing views are censored, disallowed, or otherwise underrepresented. The echo chamber effect reinforces a person’s own present world view, making it seem more correct and more universally accepted than it really is. (Wikipedia). It is the simple adage: “Birds of a feather stick together”.
Despite some pleasant post election rhetoric, each side, rather than un-circling wagons, are reinforcing defensive positions. The election has been conceded but not the fight.
Echo chambers exist because of our tribal instincts as human beings.

Despite all the contrary rhetoric, contemporary Americans are not highly individualized: we are tribal, in the extreme. It is the group, however constructed, that gives identity, for the identity that is sought is one that covers us, that hides our vulnerability and gives us the safety of those who agree. A tell-tale sign of this dynamic is found in our culture’s anger. Anger is largely driven by shame and we can affirm our tribal protection only by shouting at the outsider. Everything outside the group threatens to unmask us. To an increasing extent, the group to which we belong is that set of people who share our anger.
Fr Stephen Freeman

Humans are designed to be tribal. We are wired to organize ourselves socially into in-groups (our own group) and out-groups (others’ groups), and to organize ourselves cognitively so that our reasoning processes and even our sensory perceptions support in-group solidarity. “Believing is belonging,”
Jonathan Rauch

Life in an echo chamber is paradoxical. There are positive experiences of belonging (comfort/identity) and strengthening of our beliefs (rightness). Negatively, living in an echo chamber has potential for unhealthy even destructive outcomes. Whether we are right or wrong, our echo chamber has potential for harmful and/or destructive consequences. Living outside an echo chamber is a rare exception.

Dynamics of echo chambers

Using the concept of natural frequency (resonance)²Natural frequency is the frequency at which a system tends to oscillate in the absence of any driving or damping force. can help us understand the dynamics of echo chambers.

Accepting I am not a physicist, let me propose an analogy between the physics of natural frequency and echo chambers. Supposing the natural frequency of our echo chamber is ƒ_r [rightness]. An external application of ƒ_r[rightness] will cause the echo chamber to oscillate and achieve resonance — i.e. “resonate with us”. In simple terms, “playing our tune” or “on my wave length”. The application of ƒ_r[rightness] at increasing amplitude can grow enough too, as in case of a glass, shatter the object.

Perhaps the analogy breaks down with destruction, but, at a minimum, it supports Nicholas Kristof’s assertion: “Whatever our politics [beliefs], inhabiting a bubble makes us more shrill.” When we are exposed to continual reinforcement of our rightness, it will result in unhealthy consequences [i.e. screaming at outsiders].

We scream [become shrill] at one another because we live in echo chambers sating ourselves on ƒ_r. Because we are human echo chambers will always be our preferred residence. Eliminating echo chambers is not realistic,
Neither is Eliminating input of ƒ_r an option; reinforcement and validation of beliefs and values is crucial.
Because we reside in an echo chamber does not mean we are evil people. However, the nature and character of echo chambers is such that if we choose to reside in an unmitigated echo chamber the trajectory of our lives will bend toward evil not good.

Destined to dwell in echo chambers, how can we survive and thrive ?

Surviving and Thriving in Echo Chambers

Consent echo chambers are a reality.. Hopefully this post is helpful.

Embrace our fallibility. Counterintuitively, mitigating the power of echo chambers requires acceptance that we, as humans, are fallible. The reason we reside in echo chambers is because of our desire for confirmation that we are infallible. The most significant human trait that sustains and encourages the proliferation of and participation in harmful echo chambers is our unwillingness to entertain the possibility that we may be wrong.
Self-delusion is the adhesive which keeps us confined to echo chambers. Self-delusion is a two-sided coin: One side the delusion of omniscient, the other side the delusion of infallibility. Unfortunately, whichever side comes up, we lose.

Myth: My opinion/belief is TRUE, therefore I have no reason for concern.
The negative impact of echo chambers is indiscriminate. Relative to negative outcomes, it does not matter whether we are right or wrong. If we are certain of our opinion/belief, the reverberations within our echo chamber confirm our certainty, deafening and blinding us to any dissenting voices. In our self-deluded infallibility, we are able to justify responses, that we would never otherwise consider, toward any and all dissenting voices.

Self awareness is essential to surviving and thriving in echo chambers.
To see and truly understand ourselves is the only antidote to the self-deceiving nature of echo chambers. Self-deception is a path of least resistance. The lure of self-deception is so consuming that any thought that we can will ourselves into self-awareness is, ironically, self-deceiving. We become self-aware when we are exposed by light from external sources, stripping away shadows of self-deception, leavingus profoundly naked and humiliated. In those moments that we cannot only see who we truly are, we are also able discern who we should be and what changes are needed to transform us.

Humility is a product of self-awareness.

Absent of any driving or damping force a system, subjected to increasing amplitude of its natural frequency, will oscillate to its destruction.
Humility, produced by awareness of fallibility, is a dampening force which can modulates the amplitude of ƒ_r permitting validation and confirmation of beliefs to occur while overruling the impulse to scream.

SUMMARY

• our human default is tribal.
• self-delusion is a plight of those residing in an echo chamber,
• self-awareness is essential to surviving and thriving in echo chambers,
• there is inherent resistance to self-examination,
• prevailing, relentless narratives engender fear and rejection of dissenting voices.
• Facts don’t necessarily have the power to change minds. More education/information is not a solution. [even what presented in this post] We are faced with the discomforting reality that any solution must come from outside ourselves.
• ever-present and complex, echo chambers are an obstacle to a society characterized by virtuous human values.

Conclusion

For too many of us it’s become safer to retreat into our own bubbles, whether in our neighborhoods, or on college campuses, or places of worship, or especially our social media feeds, surrounded by people who look like us and share the same political outlook and never challenge our assumptions. In the rise of naked partisanship and increasing economic and regional stratification, the splintering of our media into a channel for every taste, all this makes this great sorting se em natural, even inevitable.
And increasingly we become so secure in our bubbles that we start accepting only information, whether it’s true or not, that fits our opinions, instead of basing our opinions on the evidence that is out there. 
_{Obama farewell speech}

The poor in spirit do not commit evil. Evil is not committed by people who feel uncertain about their righteousness, who question their own motives, who worry about betraying themselves. The evil in this world is committed by the spiritual fat cats, by the Pharisees of our own day, the self-righteous who think they are without sin in because they are unwilling to suffer the discomfort of significant self-examination.
The major threats to our survival no longer stem from nature without but from our own human nature within. It is our carelessness, our hostilities, our selfishness and pride and willful ignorance that endanger the world.
Unless we can now tame and transmute the potential for evil in the human soul, we shall be lost. How can we do this unless we are willing to look at our own evil?
The major threats to our survival no longer stem from nature without but from our own human nature within. It is our carelessness, our hostilities, our selfishness and pride and willful ignorance that endanger the world.
_{M. Scott Peck – People of the Lie}

STILL ON THE JOURNEY

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  An echo chamber is a metaphorical description of a situation in which information, ideas, or beliefs are amplified or reinforced by communication and repetition inside a defined system. Inside a figurative echo chamber, official sources often go unquestioned and different or competing views are censored, disallowed, or otherwise underrepresented. The echo chamber effect reinforces a person’s own present world view, making it seem more correct and more universally accepted than it really is. (Wikipedia)
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  Natural frequency is the frequency at which a system tends to oscillate in the absence of any driving or damping force.