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So Much to Think About

Be assured that my words are not false; one who has perfect knowledge is with you. Job 36:4 


Good News
Final words written by Michael Spencer
The are a lot of different kinds of Good News, but there is little good news in “My argument scored more points than you argument.” But the news that “Christ is risen!” really is Good News for one kind of person: The person who is dying.
If Christianity is not a dying word to dying men, it is not the message of the Bible that gives hope now.

Taking a Photograph
Taking a photograph is a way of disciplining the way we look on the world;
a moment of intentional appreciation;
an acknowledgement of our connectedness to that which is not us;
a knowing smile as we recognise the signature of the Creator;
a gentle defiance of a culture that thrives on noise, possession and the enthroned ego;
an aide memoire of an encounter that has nourished, provoked and summoned us;
an act of trust in the worthwhileness of the ordinary, the daily and the routine;
a form of prayer which merges the contemplative, the active and the imaginative.

Introversion
Introversion – along with its cousins sensitivity, seriousness, and shyness – is now a second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and a pathology. Introverts living in the Extrovert Ideal are like women in a man’s world, discounted because of a trait that goes to the core of who they are. Extroversion is an enormously appealing personality style, but we’ve turned it into an oppressive standard to which most of us feel we must conform.”
Susan Cain 

Deafened Christianity
Perhaps the most deadening aspect of our Christianity . . . is that we live it with twenty-twenty hindsight. We know the story. We know how the plot comes out. We know who the winners are. . . . The Bible contains the complete and divinely authorized biography of Jesus and furnishes the complete guide to what [we] should do to become his disciple. Everything needed for [our] personal salvation is right there. . . .
When we approach the [Jesus] story with the attitude, “I’ve heard that already, I know what that means,” we fall asleep rather than allowing ourselves to be shocked awake. . . . For all such spiritual sleepwalking bypasses that crucial first step, that moment when the heart has to find its way not though external conditioning but through a raw immediacy of presence. Only there—in “the cave of the heart,” as the mystics are fond of calling it—does a person come in contact with his or her own direct knowingness. And only out of this direct knowingness is sovereignty born, one’s own inner authority.
Richard Rohr

Therapy Matters
…there’s more to life than mere stewardship, there is the abundant life found only in God. Beyond the therapeutic there is the grace and Life available to you in God. Sin isn’t just not taking proper care of yourself, sin is also turning away from the grace available to you in Christ through faith, hope, and love.
Therapy matters. And so does God.
Richard Beck

Blogs
Conversations on the blog are far less explosive. In the world of social media, a blog can be like a quiet meeting in a lecture hall, or seminar room, with questions, answers, and comments largely measured with self-control and thoughtfulness. Facebook is often like a shouting match in the town square.
Fr. Stephen Freeman

Truth
The love of truth is similar (and related) to the love of beauty. The truth is not found through suspicion, anger, hearsay, or such things. The truth ultimately is a gift from God and strengthens the heart. It is better, when we cannot arrive at the truth because of suspicion or such, to say, “I don’t know,” than to grasp at things we suspect or imagine.
The origin of conspiracy theories begins in a heart that cannot bear the shame of its own ignorance.
Fr Stephen Freeman

Story
Clarissa Pinkola Estés writes:
Stories set the inner life into motion, and this is particularly important where the inner life is frightened, wedged, or cornered. Story greases the hoists and pulleys, it causes adrenaline to surge, shows us the way out, down, or up, and for our trouble, cuts for us fine wide doors in previously blank walls, openings that lead to the dreamland, that lead to love and learning, that lead us back to our own real lives . . .  

Belief echoes
I find that exposure to a piece of negative political information persists in shaping attitudes even after the information has been successfully discredited. A correction—even when it is fully believed—does not eliminate the effects of misinformation on attitudes. These lingering attitudinal effects, which I call “belief echoes,” are created even when the misinformation is corrected immediately, arguably the gold standard of journalistic fact-checking.
https://repository.upenn.edu/dissertations/AAI3564225/

Lives without substance
Our lives, for all of their angst, are often without substance. And for all that, we still do not weep and repent. The passions never give substance to our lives. They are like parasites on the soul, giving rise to a false self. They do not give us peace. We cannot rest in them. They contain no beauty and never satisfy us. Oftentimes, they simply leave us empty, even when the object of our passions is obtained. None of the passions represents true eros, true desire. The soul desires beauty, truth, and goodness (all of which find their utter and complete fulfillment in God Himself).
Fr Stephen Freeman

a recipe for gladness
 a recipe for gladness, especially when we don’t feel like it. We are glad God loves us and sees how hard life sometimes is; we are glad because all around us, if we look for it, is the beauty and fruitfulness of God’s creation; we are glad because, in a world as broken as ours, we affirm as a resurrection people who worship the God of Hope, the Lord reigns; we are glad because today, we are alive, this day is God’s gift, and God has work for us to do.
Jim Gordon

Admonitions for the immediate
Be an ordinary person, one of the human race.
Be polite with everyone, first of all, family members.
Be faithful in little things.
Do your work, then forget it.
Be simple, hidden, quiet, and small.
Think and talk about things no more than necessary.
Flee imagination, fantasy, analysis, figuring things out.
Don’t try to convince anyone of anything.
Have no expectations except to be fiercely tempted to your last breath.
Fr Thomas Hopko

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What is True and Real? (5)

A picture of the Chicago skyline taken almost 60 miles away, is actually a mirage.

My previous posts on “what is true and real?” have been focused on spiritual belief, examining the “mirage” quality of my faith. I have not exhausted that subject but today I want to look at “what is true and real?” in the context of our deeply divided society.

Since watching the events of January 6 and listening to voices echoing sentiments of those who stormed the capitol, I have wrestled with anxiety and struggled to remain calm and resist the urge to vent. This post has been in the oven for a week or more. Every time I started to write, my mind was muddled, my thoughts so random that I couldn’t continue. Hopefully, my thoughts have marinated enough to make sense not just an echo of continuing outrage.

I have become convinced our answers to “What is true and real?”is what divides us. There is no question, those with whom I disagree believe their narrative is true and real. One principle which neither of us are willing to compromise … there can be only one truth.. leaves no capacity for empathy, sympathy, mercy, much less compromise. Being “right” justifies dismissal and condemnation of them. (just their views, after all I hate the sin not the sinner).

For those near, dismissal and condemnation is hidden, for others, my resentment, anger, disdain, hatred, is restrained by a costume of righteousness…the seams of which are weakening. Facts, data are useless in the face of self-certified truth. Bias, preconception, self-righteousness are fruits of our secular autonomous selves. I find few exceptions to that conundrum on either side. Unless we are willing to accept protracted conflict and further dismantling of our democracy and relationships, dismissal and demonization of “them” is not a viable option. Unfortunately, I am seeing more and more people willing to sacrifice any and everything to defend “truth”.
After conversations and calmer reflection, I have remained steadfast in my condemnation of insurrection, violence and hatred. However, it would be a mistake to dismiss “them” in mass. As in all tribes and families, there are toxic people that must be dismissed and/or abandoned to proper consequences.
Toxic people have such an outsized influence on our perceptions of the world, something as simple as blocking or unfollowing 5-10% of the people you used to follow, and checking the news once a week instead of once a day, can be completely transformational for your day-to-day experience and general mood.
Mark Manson

I want to believe the solution is simple… truth is truth… so what’s the problem?
Absolute truth?
For most of my life I held an uncontested belief that truth is absolute. A belief supported by unexamined assertions of my religious education. For example:
“All truth is found in the Bible.”
“… you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
“the Bible is inerrant and infallible”
Armed with confidence that “truth is absolute” any … inherited, discerned, or taught truth was indisputable. I was a willing to defend truth at all costs.
When you believe you have the truth and truth is absolute. there are no limits.
Are you sure it is true?

More to come.

Still on the journey.

So Much to Think About

As much as possible, refrain from judging others. Assume that they are struggling secretly as well. Remember that our battle is with the passions.
Fr Stephen Freeman

Today is there is much to think about but unlike my usual ramblings, the focus is on the yesterday’s events. There is no shortage of opinions, observations, commentaries on one of the most disturbing experiences in my memory.

As I watched the scene, as expected, video captured the most vocal and extreme rioters, insurrectionists. But I also noticed footage of the margins of the crowd. Unlike those those leading the violent breech of the capital, people on margin, casually walking about, looked familiar. They looked like …friends, family, acquaintances … encountered over the past few years, and with whom in the course of conversations discovered our differences, resulting mostly in silence or avoidance of the subject.
I am struggling with the temptation to paint everyone in the crowd with same brush, or worse, all 70,000,000 sympathizers. No question there are some that should and, hopefully, will be prosecuted.
But people on the margin were familiar for another reason… they look like me. They, like myself, are struggling with their passions. My immediate challenge is to refrain from judging them. I believe the best restraint from judging others is a look in the mirror. I am not optimistic about my ability or willingness to see myself truthfully but, I was encouraged by a few members of congress yesterday.

The Message paraphrase of the “Do not judge..” passage in the Sermon on the Mount is helpful:
““Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults—unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It’s easy to see a smudge on your neighbor’s face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do you have the nerve to say, ‘Let me wash your face for you,’ when your own face is distorted by contempt? It’s this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor.”
Matthew 7:1-5 MSG

A nagging question in all of this has been “how”. How could they …???
When that question arises I remind myself of my own experience which I have written about and shared a lot.


Some time around 1970, Ford Motor Company in Louisville, Ky initiated a program to hire hard core unemployable people to work as assembly operators. At that time I was a General Foreman in production assembly. Because of the dramatic challenges of integrating the hard core unemployable into the existing culture, a series of training sessions were conducted to better equip management employees. It was in one of those sessions that I encountered a life altering experience.

There were approximately 40-50 salaried employees participating in the training session. We were subjected to a variety of lectures and exercises designed to help us understand and deal with the cultural differences we would face as we managed what seemed to be unmanageable people.

The instructor told us we would be doing a problem solving exercise. We could not take notes but were to listen carefully to the problem and determine individually the correct answer. The problem was simple enough. It involved the sale of a mule between two farmers. There were three or four purchases and repurchases for different prices. The problem to be solved was who finally owned the mule and how much did the seller profit?

Given a few moments to think about our answers, the instructor asked us to share our answers. I thought that was unnecessary since it was such simple problem and I had determined the correct answer almost immediately. Expecting that everyone else would have the same answer, I was surprised that there were four or five different answers. At that point I was feeling some satisfaction in having the correct answer.

Next we were instructed to form groups based on our answers. Four or five groups emerged. The number of people in the groups varied from 10-12, 7-8, etc and my group with 4. Again, I was a bit surprised how few had gotten the answer correct. Once we were grouped, the instructor told us to discuss our answer within our group. Following that discussion, we were told that we could change groups if we so desired. The largest group gained some members, one of whom was
from my group.

The next step involved each group sending a representative to the other groups to convince them that their answer was correct. Following some passionate argument and pleas, once again we were given the opportunity to change our answer and join the agreeing group. I was pleased that none of my group departed but mystified that none joined us.

The final step involved each group sending a representative to work out their answer in writing on the white board. I represented our group and was pleased at how clearly I was able to illustrate the correct answer. Confident that people would finally realize how mistaken they were, I welcomed the final opportunity for people to change their minds and join my group. I watched with disappointment as another of my group departed for the largest group. No one
joined my group. There were now three groups. My group with myself and one other, a second group with 4-5 people and the large group with everyone else.

At this point, it is important to understand how invested I had become in the exercise. My mind was racing and my emotions were deepening. I was truly flabbergasted at the results of the exercise. It had become personal.

To conclude the exercise, the instructor chose two people to represent the farmers and provided money for the transaction. I should not have been surprised that he chose me to be one of the farmers. To assure that there would be no question about the outcome, we methodically acted out the transactions. Carefully we passed the money with each exchange. At the conclusion, I possessed the money and was asked to count it for everyone to see. Convinced I had calculated
the answer correctly, I gladly complied.

WRONG! I was wrong. There was no doubt.

The impact of that moment for me cannot be overstated. I was embarrassed and shamed. My arrogance and self-righteousness were exposed. How could I have been so deaf and blind? Any thought of humble acceptance escaped me. Thankfully the obvious outcome spared me the unfamiliar words: “I was wrong”. Almost immediately, the thought crossed my mind,

“If I was wrong about this, what else am I wrong about?

http://www.georgeezell.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Echo-Chambers.pdf

View from the lanai
Yes the sun did come up this morning and it was beautiful.

Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days.
Psalm 90:14 NIV

Hindsight is 2020

Hindsight, ever the cruelest and most astute adviser” 
 R.J. Ellory, Bad Signs


It seems review the past year is compulsory. This post is a submission to that demand. I am reluctant to comment on 2020 primarily because of Ellory’s judgement of hindsight…it is a cruel and astute adviser.

2020 confirmed Pogo’s wisdom.

202o
… Impeachment/acquittal
…Covid-19 Pandemic
… Social and political upheaval
… Death of George Floyd/ riots, protests
… Quarantines/Lockdowns
… Economic collapse
… Presidential campaigns/elections
exploding flares illuminating the landscape of my life exposing my delusions, misconceptions, misunderstandings and sins. With each occurrence, disappointing realities have been revealed …biases, fears, anger, hatred, prejudices, doubts, impatience and rudeness. The assault has has been relentless. Secreted idols have been exposed, stripping away naive facades of my faith.
Surprisingly, 2020 did not leave me disheartened. My temptation is to attribute survival to the triumph of my faith, but that would be disingenuous. Hindsight reveals a coping strategy dependent on observing and condemning “them”, shielding me from the truth… “the enemy is me”. It saddens to think I may well have squandered an opportunity for spiritual growth in 2020 for “thirty pieces of silver”?

Unlike Judas, my filthy lucre can be redeemed. 2020 is not the end, 2021 it is not the beginning of the end, it is the next page in a story that continues to be written. 2021 is not a light at the end of the tunnel but a bright star in the dark night, the star of David leading me through darkness…the end always in sight.

Ellory is right:
Hindsight, ever the cruelest and most astute adviser.

Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.
Deuteronomy 4:9

What will we teach our children and their children about 2020?

2020 Top 5 Posts

It is hard to believe the end of 2020 is just a few days away. The calendar year is closing, hopefully the beginning of the end of the pandemic.

This post highlights what I consider my top 5 posts fo 2020. Sorry for this exercise in a bit of self-aggrandizement, but after all, isn’t that what having a blog is all about?
Listed in descending order, these posts were selected based on originality and personally relevant content. I am open to other nominations.


# 5 – SAY WHAT?
This post made the cut for its farcical idea. I remain hopeful someone will pick up on it and develop a desperately needed “SAY WHAT?” app.

#4 – THE SKY IS FALLING
An opportunity for me to gloat a bit. This post, written prior to the emergence of the pandemic, was prescient. My advice, though largely ignored, remains relevant.


#3 – LIFE IN THE SUNSET
This short post written at the beginning of 2020 has at its core my best description of living in the autumn of my life.

#2 – MIDDLE TINT
Middle Tint is a metaphor which connected deeply with me and continues to challenge me.

#1 – THE CHRISTIAN VALUE – AGAPE
The concluding post to my series on Christian Values, Agape emerges as The Christian Value. If you are going to only read one of my posts for 2020, this is it.